Wedding Etiquette … ?

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By : Jundy

Wedding etiquette is more than saying “please” or “thank you. ” it’s also placing your napkin in your lap and knowing what fork to use. While it’s important to use etiquette in every situation, it’s especially advisable to brush up on your wedding etiquette.

Wedding etiquette is the set of informal rules that govern all aspects of engagements, weddings and receptions. It is also particularly tricky, especially when the child has a close relationship with both the mother and the stepmother by remarriage.

The Bride and Groom, immediate family and the Wedding Party all have their roles to play on the wedding day.

Wedding Gift Etiquette

Permission to Marry – Start off on the right footing and future in-laws, on both sides, will be happy. It is customary for the future groom to visit the future bride’s father and ask permission to marry his daughter.

Where the marriage will take place – Once it has been agreed the marriage will take place, the couple should decide on where they wish to be married. A Church, a Temple, or a Registry Office. The Vicar or Priest should be contacted immediately to discuss the reading of the banns and book a date.

Cost, who pays? – In wedding etiquette, traditionally the bride’s parents pay. However, owing to the exorbitant cost in today’s society sometimes one has to compromise. It is often suggested that the groom or his family pay for the drinks at the Reception.

Dress for the Wedding – Traditionally the bride, or the father of the bride, buys the bride’s dress. Sometimes the dress is handed down through the generations, from mother to daughter. Today, it is also common for the bride to hire her wedding gown. The majority of men hire a suit or Tuxedo for the occasion. Often the bride will pay for the bridesmaid’s dresses.

Essential bookings – At the earliest possible date, book the transportation for the bride and family to the Church and to the Reception. Also transportation for after the reception is of utmost importance to ensure there is no drinking and driving.

The Photographer – To avoid disappointment book the Photographer as soon as possible. A year in advance is advisable.

The Reception & the catering – Book 6 months to one year in advance. Owing to mishaps that can occur eg: double bookings make sure you visit the place of choice closer to the date and check the catering for food quality.

The Entertainment – While the Entertainment should be booked well ahead of time. Take into consideration the range of the age group taking part in the festivities, before you make your choice.

The Gift Opening – Traditionally the gift opening is done the day after the wedding day, usually at the bride’s home or other place of choice.

By the way, wedding etiquette is to consult a professional wedding consultant who is very familiar with the customs and traditions of the area. What are some good rules of thumb about dressing to attend a wedding?

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